Well, I have gotten the message. Now, the trick is to make a real change in my life.
My priorities should be, God first, husband second, kids third.
Although I knew this, I wasn't practicing it.
I'm not doing right by my husband.
I've had the book, A Woman after God's Heart by Elizabeth George for a long time. I think it is a deceiving book, in that it is easy to read and as I read it, I kept saying to myself, "of course!' But there is real depth there. Getting the intellectual knowledge down from my head and into my heart has been another matter.
I picked it up recently and read a part about priorities and I realized that I have not made my husband a priority. He is so good and does so much for the family and seems so completely self-sufficient, that I have put the kids ahead of him in many ways.
I'm hoping to make a real change. Let me rephrase that: I am praying that God will help me make a real change.